Adjustments!

Husband has had last treatment!…

a scan in January will tell us if the cancer is gone…

The first scan midway… said “no signs”…

so please Dear Lord let this be the same…

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Son … who has had terrible bout with his bi-polar/ schizoaffective disorder…

is on his meds… and doing a lot better…

Just 2-1/2 years to get him help…

He is in a group home at the moment… Maybe a 6 month stay and maybe forever…

The choice will be his…

An apartment of his own could happen within the year… Now… to see what he is willing to do to make this happen…

Unable to have him at home anymore…

But, the placement seems to be working well…

Meds are monitored and given…

but, he has freedom to leave on his own… or to have visitors…

Can go out with us … but, at this point… I will NOT have him home…

The anxiety is too much…

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I cannot describe my feelings or my husband’s at this point…

Pretty still numb with the thought of the decision we had to make…

A GREAT adjustment…

Being able to be with him some and talk whenever we want has helped him and us…

Cooperation seems to be the word in force right n ow…

Thank God for the people put in our path during this horrific encounter and decision-making…

Now…

if my heart will withstand the loss I feel of not having him here at home…

Time will tell!

 

 

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4 thoughts on “Adjustments!

  1. My Dear Marilyn
    I have watched more then a few families go through what you are with your son. I was hoping for. A group home and good meds. There is always that sad moment when they can’t be at home As hard as it is I’m glad you found a safe place for him and you.

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