Bobby’s Progress… and Treats Given…

Bobby had his scan on Monday…

We always get the results on Wednesday when he goes in for Chemo Treatment… (every other Wednesday)

(scan is done after every 4th treatment)

An agonizing time for both of us…

I decided to take the Oncology Department some goodies for “Easter”…

our next appointment being after Easter Weekend…

I made fudge…  

 adding a few flower sprinkles for color and make the pieces more festive…

 

I had a kit… which has everything in it to make about 1-1/2 pounds of fudge…

PLENTY!…

I cut the pieces in small squares and put in small muffin papers before putting on my clear “Bunny” plate…

 

 

and tied up with Easter Cellophane Bag and bow…

They deserve to be treated kindly… for all they do to make my Bobby feel good when he comes in for his treatments…

kind words…

a pat on the back…

joking…

encouraging…

A “special” job…

“Special people”…

 

We leave early to go downtown to the VA Hospital…

the day is shining bright… … and ei9t’s early!…

 

we turn to go up the hill to the hospital …

 

Visible above the tress…

 

We valet park… found to be much easier… and no charge/no tipping… are the rules…

We are assigned a room for the day…

he in the bed with his IVs… of 3 or more meds…  

and I take my place near him in my chair

Wednesday is Popcorn Day at the VA… and always buy a bag or two  … one to eat as I read my book… watch TV…etc. …

and sometimes one to take home…

His port is accessed…

and Magnesium is started if in need…

and with these drugs… it usually is low…

I go and get him a little breakfast as we wait for blood work to come back…

they have a nice cafeteria at the VA Hospital with kind people… waiting on you…

With the new med that has been added…

Benadryl is taken… Ativan… Steroids, etc. …

and blood pressure has to be monitored…

It seems to raise his  pressure…

but, being somewhat stressed has it’s effects also…

The Doctor comes in… and we actually “hold our breath”…

he is very direct!…

“his Way”…

but, we get honesty… which we do want…

There are 3 spots in his diaphragm they are keeping a close watch on…

“No new growths”…

but, cancer cell # is rising (which is not good)…

he was 230 when discovered cancer…

dropped to 5-6 at end of first year…

then came back…

went to 10-11…

went 15-16…

and now 30-35…

and we nearing another year!…

so… as you see… we are concerned…

Goal was to remove two previous meds… but, he will have to remain on them at this time…

Three total… given through port… and a pump to take home for two days… Taken off around 1:00pm on Fridays…

This is our routine now for about two years…

“We have been given time!”… (Thank you Lord!)

Now…

the Doctor would like to try a new med but, will it will have to be approved

Will take a month for the approval if given… NO guarantees!…

So… we feel like we have heard “the news”… which is terminal cancer

all over again…

Definitely makes you sink…

and the tears flow for both of us

The girls… “nurses”… social worker… nutritionist…

we have several who come in to check changing bags of meds… resetting machine…offering snacks/drinks and sometimes just stay and talk…
That’s what we like best…

so… as you see…

a treat to brighten the day in this department is welcomed…

 

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9 thoughts on “Bobby’s Progress… and Treats Given…

  1. Just remember to take things one day at a time and find the blessings in each day! My heart sinks every time I hear the word Cancer. I pray for a cure everyday and today sending prayers for you and Bobby. The Cancer journey is never an easy one, but please know how much you two are loved. Hugs & healing thoughts, Andrea & Harris

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