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Daily Prompt; BYOB(ookworm)

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Write the blurb for the book jacket of the book you’d write, if only you had the time and inclination.

Photographers, artists, poets: show us BOOKS.

Book Title:

They Call Them Special! k0662770

I met these children quite by accident…

In a park… I was confronted with their curiosity and love…

and then was placed in the position of learning and teaching…

My choice?… Not quite… Art was my dream…

But, I learned there was Art in these “Special Kids” …

and they taught me as well!

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Daily Prompt: Childlike

Explain your biggest regret — as though to a small child.

Photographers, artists, poets: show us CHILDLIKE.

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Digging in the sand on the beach…

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Walking on a curb…

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Breaking your first bone…

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Having a pet…

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Just being happy…

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Playing in the pool with your little brother…(or big sister)…

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Just enjoying being outside…

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Those first days of school…

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Dressing up for Halloween…

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Baby doll and Sippy Cup…

Daily Prompt: Imitation/Flattery

Write a post in the style of (or simply inspired by) a favorite author.

Photographers, artists, poets: show us HOMAGE.

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I love the word that is a synonym to homage “accolade” …

“respect shown”…

I talk of this all of the time…

That our children are growing up not knowing how to give homage or indeed… not even knowing what it is!…

Have they been neglected in obtaining this type of praise???

Maybe as adults we fail to teach this to our children…

We give them a lot of things!… but, do we show them and tell them how worthy they are???

If homage was given for the good, wonderful, unique, funny things they do…

maybe they would know how to accept accolades… and in return give them!…

Accolades…Homage… Just plain “respect” is what I call it!

Give it to your young ones

making them feel special…

letting them know they are worthy…

Respect (homage) begets respect (homage)…

Causing it to happen!

I use the plate in photo often… I want all to feel special and it’s my way of paying homage!

“My” Favorite Fathers…

I picked my “immediate” favorite Fathers…

We have so many in our BIG extended family

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My son Doug… is not a “Father” but, the best Uncle any kids could ever have…

Sometimes “surrogate” fathers are wonderful… the ones who play games, always have movies available, treats on hand and lots of love to give…

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My son Brian… has turned into one of the Best Dads I know…

I’ve never seen so much love oozing out of a person for his three kids

and they know it!…

Hugging… smooching… playing with them… talking to them… disciplining them…

and working hard every day to provide for them…

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My brother Charles has 5 children, 7 grandchildren

He takes them on trips… different places to eat… babysits… and is loved by all of them!

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My brother Eddie has passed… and will truly be missed today…

A  wonderful Dad… as you would see by his 3 grown children

Two daughters and one son + two children who died as infants… 

and three Grandchildren

Worked hard every day… taking them on many trips… eating out a lot and just showing his love in his hugs and grin…

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My dad ( Edward )…with my Brother Eddie…

Served in the Navy…

Had us three children…+ raised our half-brother and sister

18 Grandchildren and 42 Great-Grandchildren and 8 Great-great Grandchildren “as of today”…

( I might hear differently if someone counts better than me)…

Provided by working hard every day… building our home…

and giving us love and discipline…

Taking us on many trips… teaching us so many things about life…

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My husband… Then and now…

Loving Father… hard worker… supporting… fun… active…

Giving all he could and still does to his two boys and his three Grandkids

Thanks to these guys in my life that have shown what being a Dad is all about!

Daily Prompt: Goals

When you started your blog, did you set any goals? Have you achieved them? Have they changed at all?

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The following is what I wrote that first blog day ( 12-31-2010) …k2527826

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I achieved them… by writing about my “Special Kids” for a whole yeark0662770

I don’t know how many readx22042384how many learned anything… k13912041how many people even made comments at that time…k12892580

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I also had as a goal to make this year of writing… about  “my kids”… into a bookcfr0052

That I haven’t done… but, has not been forgotten vmo0481

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I have decided to start a blog… I am learning… but, have decided to try new things this year… I’ve always wanted to tell about my experiences while working with “Special Ed” children… I call them “my kids”… This experience began over 30 years ago… when my youngest son was just a baby… we were at a park with my two boys, my sister and her kids and my Mother… We often took a picnic lunch to the park to let the kids play… We took whatever we had in the house, which could be peanut butter and jelly or tuna fish sandwiches… Kool Aid a must!…  A  group of children under supervision of a young man and others were there also… As we were walking around… watching the kids play, a young boy approached us and started saying, “baby, baby”… He was reaching for “my baby” and got a hold of him and wouldn’t let go… My sister was getting excited and hollered for our Mother to help her… By this time a young man who I had seen with this group of children came running up and got the boy… giving us much relief… He said, “I’m sorry that the boy had grabbed the baby, but he meant no harm”… We found out that the children were “retarded”  children as we called them at that time… We left soon after… with a tale to tell my husband and others… I didn’t know that would be the beginning of my experiences with these “Special Kids”… I had a cousin with cerebral palsy… He was very smart,but lived in a twisted body with speech hardly recognizable… I liked him… but, didn’t really understand his health problems except through what I overheard from family… He had a great sense of humor and he loved my Dad… who would make special visits to see him even though it was some distance from our house… Dad was a joke teller and my cousin would get so tickled!…  I remember him using a typewriter… so I knew he had to be smart, just hard to get around and talk normal… Oh, how advanced he could have been if he had lived to use all the equipment that has been invented for people with his disabilities… I would say his disability was more physical and but as you will read later “mental” disabilities can be even harder…

My stories progressed after this… dealing with the issues I dealt with as a Teacher Assistant with these most Special Children“… k0662770“My Kids”…

M is for Mom – Free Write Friday prompt

This is my post for Kellie’s Free Write Friday prompt. 

http://kellieelmore.com/2013/05/10/fwf-free-write-friday-m-is-for-mom

My first memories of my Mom is laying in her lapfeeling her arms wrapped around me… a feeling of love and securityk10765920

As I grewI watched her intently learning all those things she stayed busy with…k12108458

Hanging clothes on the line in our yard… after washing our clothes in a wringer type washing machineu26177032

Sprinkling the fresh air clothes cof1153and rolling them up to be ironed on the wooden ironing board she had salvaged from the 1937 flood here in Louisvillek8051007

Cutting the crust off of the bread with her favorite cookie cutter to make us special little sandwiches with scalloped edgesk3156579

Cutting paper dolls that held each others hands… some girls …some boys… gww64684591

Frying chicken in the big iron skillet k7626384and how she could always make enough to feed whoever showed up for dinner…with the greatest of ease…

Taking walks with me down to the creek k1523077 catching tadpoles and telling of how they would soon be frogsk10312337235px-Kaulquappen_Tadpole_3

Snakes… beware… always watch where you walk Roly Poly  Millipede bugs… watch how they roll up when scared…Glomeris_marginata_1Grandaddy Long Legs… good for eating other bugs… don’t hurt them… Caterpillars 62313438_m90TPBo5… they will turn into beautiful butterfliesk6028940… Amazing isn’t it!…

I hear her voice explaining so many things…

I watch as she sews on the Singer treadle sewing machine mMe4fyqNZnjouBxZjh_feAA … later teaching me … her foot going up and down … threading the spool through the hooks and eye of the needle… replacing thread on the bobbin… so quickly …

The little dresses…pajamas… nightgowns… aprons… sewn with thoughts of that person she was making them for… swirling in her head…

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Brushing my hair… making a ponytail that would stay up all day…k12532526

Making my baby doll diapersk3406638 out of rags she always saved… and even a blanket to keep it warm…

Always having a little change k4795565set aside for the ice cream man who came by on his bicycle k9178485and for a quart of chocolate milk from the milkman

The beautiful plants… flowers and even tress planted and cared for with her green thumb… Everything grew in abundance… and she talked to them as she sprinkled them with the watering can ruggia0622c lilacsk3290020…daffodils… violets… petunias k6381330 … rosescherry tomatoes and green onions

I was getting older…

I had the shoes… clothes… that all of the other girls wanted… maybe a little later but, I got them…

Her… helping a person here and there that needed an extra pair of hands… and making that extra dollar mm01p006for us kids… Nothing for herself…

She never seemed to “want” or “need” anything…

I knew Mom would be home when I arrived home from school… welcoming me and asking how my day had been…

A comforting feeling…

She was always helping me… as I learned to drive our car in the front yard… and up and down the driveway… practicing when Dad was at work… and passing my driving test with flying colors… as she had asked me the questions from the book I studied from over and over…

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She was there when I married… helping invite the family and friends to my small wedding before my Bobby went to Viet Nam

She was with me when I had my two sonsk8507331k8507331… two of her many grandchildren

She was strong for us when daddy passed away… and in turn it became our turn to take care of her…

Trying to keep the grass cut… repairs on the house Daddy had built… and taking her for appointments bfa0026and grocery store runs… she had never driven a car except in the country on back roads…

The tide had turned…

Mom eventually comes to live at my home… welcomed of course… living and being part of our little family for five years

She talks and talks of the past… as we learned many stories of her growing up years u17977542… An honor… to listen to her reminisce… with a smile on her face and maybe a little whimsical tear in her eye at times…

She eventually leaves us to be cared for in the nursing home k5266113not far up the road… Better care for her last years… which was three

She lives to be 98 years of ageA full life… a long life…

I feel her to this day… when my heart hurts k8376139… when I feel joyk4132964 … like a slight breeze caressingu12713348 me as I turn and almost expect to see her …

Thank you Mom… I miss you!

Daily Prompt: Bedtime Stories

What was your favorite book as a child? Did it influence the person you are now?

I don’t know if I ever had the book…maybe aGolden Book as they call them…

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My Mother would tell me stories all of the time… She amazed me with her memory… and she never seemed to tire of telling me stories… at bedtime… at nap time… when I didn’t feel well… just for fun!…

I listened with great attention to every word

One of my favorites was Peter Rabbit

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… I later found that the author was Beatrix Potter… and that she was also a wonderful artist

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Beatrix Potter when she was young … learning to write and illustrate… and when she was older…

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Castle Cottage… where she lived with her husband…

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Other characters illustrated by Beatrix Potter…

My Mom in telling her stories was very demonstrative… Meaning… that I could just picture the characters and places vividly with her voice and descriptions… She seemed to illustrate with her voice…

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Peter Rabbit was a little naughty… getting into Mr. McGregor’s garden… munching on his fresh carrots and lettuce… Wearing his little blue coat that his hard-working Mother had made him…

I liked that his Mother disciplined him, but also showed her love for him…

Maybe his Mother reminded me of mine… and yes… in its small way… influenced me…