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I Did It!… and You Probably Never Noticed!

I had to do it!…

I had over 400 of them… just sitting there in front of me…

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Every time I opened up my email… they sat there overwhelming me

How did this happen???

I can only imagine it was when my computer was down k8394947 for a week…

But, as hard as I tried the number would just keep growing… So, since I’ve been up since 5:30am… I decided to take the big leapsca0372

Sorry to say… I hit the delete button on about 380 emails…

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My reasoning being… I would just have to start over

Reading updated mail from all my friends… and quit crying (contemplating) over spilt milk COW_21C… The spilt milk being old news k6302606 … old blogs… and all of the prompts I’ll never be able to write…

I am beginning fresh!…

and hope to never again get behind like I did…

I’m sure you never noticed that I had not made a commentk1490127 k4693899 … had not hit that “like” buttonk11941337

but, being a loyal follower of my Blog Friendsk11940123… I had been slowly getting myself in a frenzy k12241691 trying to read and answer

A new day k4132525 … and a clean slate k5189494

                                                                   How refreshing!

To “Facebook” or NOT to “Facebook”?…That Is the Question!

I hooked up with Facebook   today…Have actually fought getting on…Reasons???

 #1. Safety Issues …who’s going to get my info?

 #2. Time consuming  …I already spend so much time doing my blog …which I thoroughly enjoy

 #3. My husband just doesn’t get it!…”Who are you talking to?…Who is getting all your info?…Why do you want to do it?…Don’t you think you’re on the computer too much as it is?”, he says.

 #4. I like to hear all the pros and cons before I try something.

 #5. I didn’t understand the concept fully.

 #6. Just because everyone does it…doesn’t mean I have to or even want to.

 #7. My husband is watching someone on TV right now… who had their bank account and their “Friends” bank accounts compromised and pretty much depleted…just by being on Facebook.

The reason I changed my mind was really quite by accident …I was looking at a sites Facebook account…when they said I needed to join or could go no further…so right then and there I did it…Within minutes you are pretty much hooked…all those people who you know…just waiting for me to become their friend …Is’nt that grand!…I thought I was already their friend…but, evidently not …They seem to think they can only talk to me and share their thoughts and activities with me this way…I agree it doesn’t take as much effort…

No going to the telephone and sitting in one spot for a while and having an actual conversation… after eavesdropping   on the other parties conversation that shares the line with you…Oh no, that was when I was in Elementary School…1950’s I do believe …Hmm…

 No getting out a pen…more likely a pencil…and paper with just some lines on it or plain white…and actually writing in cursive  …Dear _____, … How have you been?…and so on and so on…until you’ve told them everything that had happened the last couple of weeks…signing it with Love, ______… having to buy a stamp and licking it  and placing it on the envelope …and you actually knew how to address it the correct way…I even remember when zip codes  started being used…Oh no, what year was that?…July1,1963 to be exact…

 No going to the dime store  and actually buying a special birthday card or get well card  and actually mailing it to the person…and they thought that the card was the gift  …Oh no, just a card…I thought you had to buy expensive presents…I believe I like the card idea…Let’s try it for a year…wouldn’t people be surprised?

 No walking across the street and sitting on the porch …having a cup of coffee or a glass of iced tea…with your neighbor…Oh no, you don’t really know your neighbor that well…you just say hi and by…as you get in your car to go a couple of blocks down to Wal-Mart  or Kroger…

 So it looks like our way of communicating has changed a lot…so do I keep on blogging???  Do I keep on “Facebooking” ??? Do others keep on texting??? or talking on cell phones while doing 5 things at once??? …I’m sure that gives the person you are talking to, lots of your attention…

 So here’s the dilemma …Do you want me for your friend??? and do I want you for my friend???

<<<<<<<Which one would you rather do?…

“My Kids!”…

Some of our students knew about Facebook   long before I did…They saw their parents, relatives or friends doing it …Some said they had their own Facebook account…Who am I to doubt it…One thing I do know is that “Friendship”  was so important to these children…Some of our kids were so friendly we had to teach them what was appropriate and what wasn’t…You just can’t hug everyone  …even if you think you like them a lot…Some of our kids even wanted to sit on others laps …NO, NO!…that was quite unacceptable…We were not their Mom or Dad…even if they thought that way of us…another teaching time…When we would be out in a public place such as a movie theater  …a grocery store… an amusement park …a playground area…We would have to watch and make sure our kids were kept safe   from unfriendly people…They loved talking … had so much trust…so suseptible…so easily swayed …These children will need to be supervised  as to who they accept  as their Friends …Because they themselves, are just too friendly!